aww yaw, wat ups guy?
today, S mw buat entri ttg apa arh?
bule kmu bgi S cadangan.. hurmmm.. ssh ouh..
pening-pening!
okay lh S nk buat entri ttg cinta...
huhu..
:3
apa itu cinta?
apa makna cinta?
hurmmm..
menjadi persoalan dalam blog ni...
biar pakar cinta meleraikan persoalan ini...
cinta adalah sebuah anugerah dan kurnia daripada Allah S.W.T..
ia di cipta dan di beri untuk mencinta dan cinta antar satu sama lain.
seperti mencinta kaum Adam/hawa,
mencinta haiwan dan mencintai alam sekitar...
makna cinta?
Most people who claim to love someone don’t really love them, because they don’t know what love actually is.
To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person
exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they
will be in the future – because people change all the time, so if you
love the person, you will love them even if they become something you
disagree with. How many parents can say that about their kids? How many
people can say that about their “lover”? Love is not about you or your
pleasure or your amusement. It’s not about what you get out of it or
what the other person can give to you. It’s not about having a trophy
you can show off with and tell people “This is *MY*
girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband/son/daughter/whatever”. You do not
“own” anyone. It’s not about you feeling ‘proud’ to be with someone who
always agrees with everything you say and do and never does anything you
disagree with. Unconditional love means that the person can just live
their life exactly as they choose and you will always be there for them
no matter what.
So, how does unconditional love fit in with relationships and
marriage and sex and all that stuff the whole world keeps going crazy
over? It doesn’t, really. It doesn’t “fit” in anywhere. Relationships
are like trying to put love into a box and keep it there, except love is
infinitely sized, and the box is… well, there is no box large enough.
And a normal, conventional marriage is quite possibly the worst possible
way to show someone how much you love them.
Unconditional love is more of a spiritual thing. It’s not bound by
physical things, like blood relations and the desire to procreate. It
has nothing whatsoever to do with sex. Most people are in relationships
because they’re horny and/or lonely, even if they genuinely think they
love the other person. But if the person they “love” suddenly lost their
“equipment” for whatever reason, would they still want to be with that
person? Would they get jealous if the person they “love” wanted to spend
time with other people as well? Relationships based on needs are not
unconditional.
In order to truly understand love, you must first forget everything
you have ever learned about it from society and anyone else (including
what I just said). You are the only person who can tell you what love
is. The only reason I’m writing all this stuff is because people always
try to fit “love” in with things like dating, relationships and marriage
and all that. You can’t make any sense of it if you keep doing that.
You have to get rid of everything you think you know first.
so loving someone is not that easy...
loving someone is not like when u eat a chewing gum then you spit it... no..
is about you passion and feeling...
but for the coorect answer... its all in your heart.. believe in your self that you can love and stay with that
also thankfull to lord...
hope you guys like it..
well thats my entri for today.. love <3
bye... assalamualaikum...
:3
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